My hubby has brought it up a couple of times that he spends more time at home than most dads, but doesn't spend much time with the kids. He spend a lot of his time either working or doing his own hobbies.all up I think he spends maybe an hour with all our 4 kids a week actually doing something with them.it makes me a little sad and mad that he doesn't want to do anything with them.maybe once a month he feels bad and will take them bike riding for the afternoon. So I was wondering how many other mums are in the same boat? And this obviously won't apply to FIFO families. I feel like a single mum with a man in the house iykwim.also I was an only child to a single mother so I can't compare to how I was raised either.