This is my first post, I'm not sure if I'm writing this in the right section or what ever, but I desperately need some guidance.
I'm only 21 years old, my boyfriend of only 3 months is 19 years old and we found out a few days ago that I'm about 5 weeks pregnant. I've never been in this situation before, neither has he. I'm actually his first girlfriend so it's even more shock to him and his family. He is an aspiring football player who has been working his whole life to go pro. He also has a passion to open his own business soon. All of this was compromised when we found the news and he doesn't want me to go ahead with it. He isn't giving me any other option but to abort. We don't have a very stable financial situation as well as I'm only casual and he is also, due to football. I know the situation isn't ideal for either of us but my family are completely supportive and want to do anything to help me out.
I believe if I go through with it he won't stick around, but if I have the abortion he will 'support me' which basically means he isn't giving me a choice. I am so torn with what to do. I can't justify aborting just because it isn't ideal. I want to go through with it for the sake of giving the child a chance but I face the fear of doing it alone. Has anyone else experienced anything similar?