Lately DH and I have been discussing our friends. DH had 4 friends that he had grown up with and 3 months ago there was a falling out. Basically after us being together 8 years and realising that 2 of the boys wives I have never meet majority of the children, ours and theirs have never meet, my husband decided to ask his mates why? Why do they never do family things only boys things, why do they all never really ask about each other's families and why do they only really talk about the old days. After all of them blaming me saying that I have changed him, they have kind of parted ways.
Then we looked at my 2 friends and really if I don't call them or invite them around to our place then I don't see or hear from them at all.
It made us think then, are we the weird ones and not them? We just want friends that share the entertainment eg. Bbq's at their house as well as ours. Friends that want to spend time with all of us but also boys and girls times. Are we the weird ones? Is it that life is getting to busy and no one has time for each other anymore?