So 3.5 months ago I had my second child. My oldest is now 5. There is a 4 yr and 9 month gap between them.
I ran into a woman I hadn't seen in a while. She was congratulating me on my new dd and she said 'you're finally a proper family now!' - I don't think she meant any malice behind it at all, but I was very when she said it. Do you think it is weird?