Firstly sorry if this not in the right spot.
Ok, so I have this situation with my 10year old. She has been attending dance lessons since she was 3, she had a break for a few months, all of it her choice. She is by no means under pressure to attend.
The problem occurs after the big performances/concerts, she is excited and loves being a part of it, no problems beforehand....after, now that's where it beings, we try to celebrate by taking her to dinner, which is what she wants, but she just can't pull herself together, it starts off a head ache, and just snowballs, she feels dizzy, she literally turns so pale it petrifies me, she also becomes nauseous, she can't hold herself up, this is the first time she has actually vomited.
So dinner is cut short. She literally can not walk on her own to the car, when we get home I need to change her into pj's because she is that unwell she can't do it on her own.
Last year I had told her a week before a big concert that if it happens again I couldn't let her keep doing that to herself, and that she would no longer attend dancing, she was ok after that concert, although I could tell she had a headache but she kept it together, since then it has progressively become worse, with this being the worst ever incident.
Now I'm just at a loss, and scared, she is a placid child, this is something she is great at I don't want to take it away from her.
I'm also wondering is there a bigger underlying problem why this happens?
After this last time I feel like I should perhaps go see a child psychologist.
I feel so broken, it's terrible to see her like that I just don't know how to help her, I feel so helpless.
Does anyone have any ideas/advice?