@ScubaGal when I use the pessaries I go to the loo quickly pop it in quickly wash my hands and then jump into bed and read a book lying down. I make sure my bed is all set for me to jump into straight away
The first week I noticed it to be messy but I've noticed my body is absorbing it more these days. And yes first morning wizz or should I say the 12am or 3 am wizz is interesting the wax solidifys once it hits the cold toilet water. Also I was told to lay down for at least 1/2 hour so by then I'm sure what needs to be absorbed is absorbed.
Don't stress too much hun. xoxo