Thanks @larazie and @MayGal959
Good luck to everyone & fx for many more wonderful bfp's.
@larazie - just wallowing in my own pity-party!!! Thanks for the love!
Only coming up to the 1-year mark (which is nothing in the scheme of things) - but never had any understanding or even contemplate that this would be so emotionally sapping.
I even question 'whether I want children?' - and at this moment, I truly don't know my answer.
A break from temping, peeing on sticks and charting will be a relief while DH is o/seas. I'm expelling too much energy on negative "what ifs?" Etc.
I'll be taking Provera a few weeks after day 35.
Will re-start late August/early Sept.
I want to see many more 'thumbs up' icons on page 1! Baby dust to all xx
I think AF will arrive later today, her tell tale pink cm is here. Tbh I expected as much. I had very early fertile cm, around cd6-7, and it was a last minute decision to ttc and see if we could catch it on cd12. So opks are in the post good luck to everyone still to test xx
So another test at 13 dpo showed up with no line appearing for over 20 mins. Af is due today. I notice every twinge and have been to the loo 4 times this morning. No sign yet. I have given up posting a photo. I'm normally on time with Af so I'll test again in a couple of days.
Best wishes to everyone.
I know how u fell as I was feeling the same when I wasn't getting pregnant with #1 I was nearly at the point of giving up too & thinking ill ever be mum & doing crazy stuff & being emotional all the time especially at night just b4 bed time then id argue with DH & he would fall asleep so id get up call my mum or vacuum to try to wake DH lol & more crazy scary stuff but with in that month I found out I as expecting.
U need to stay + & this little break while ur DH is away might be what u nee to just refresh urself
Just did a HPT, got a BFN at 12DPO. Just waiting for AF to come now. what a let down - especially when so many people around me have been announcing their pregnancies.
Quick question - would you see a doctor if your cycle is around 50-54 days long? I finished the pill in March. going at this rate we only have 3 more tries to get pregnant before the end of the year.
@vague sorry to hear of your BFN. I would think its probably not a bad idea to speak to a doc, but I'd also prepare yourself to hear the stock standard line of "it can take up to 12 months for your body to readjust after coming off the pill". If you're really concerned, you could push for blood tests maybe though? I guess it depends on your doc as to whether they will do it or not though. Good luck if you decide to go ahead with a dr appt! x
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