@straycat - as you know I've not officially started, but I feel your pain.
We decided to tell our parents, and I've told a few close friends but that is it. Now my FIL is researching IVF / PCD, and sending us research papers. (In his defence, he was a scientist.) I feel like I've only made the pressure worse.
I just want this first cycle to start so we can get on with it!