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    I'm sick of you blaming me for losing your stuff when you can't find where you put it. For having a go at me for wanting to edit an advert as it's incorrect. For moaning at me because I was too exhausted to go out with you and the kids this morning, having been up with the baby as usual in the night. All of this you say in front of our children. Just stop it. Stop calling me 'mental' one minute, then trying to kiss me and make up the next and getting angry when I won't have it. Stop embarrassing me in front of people by making arguments public despite my best efforts. Stop expecting sex despite all the damage that's already been done, then moaning that your attitude and behaviour is my fault as you're pent up. Fed up with you. Don't like you right now. Its always hard to say I love you. Want to be far away from you and I just can't. But I always feel better soon and it always goes back to normal, for a while, until the next time

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    Oh Bond... No words - just want to give you a massive hug xxxx

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    Ugh that sucks, Bond. Men can be selfish and thoughtless at times. Hope you are ok. X

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    Oh Bond that sounds awful Huge hugs from me I hope DH stops being a douche bag soon xx


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    He sounds awful. Can u maybe get some counselling?

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyflower View Post
    He sounds awful. Can u maybe get some counselling?
    Thank you but we've tried, more than once. Sometimes I think I'm going mad and it's just me taking things the wrong way or causing it. Sure, I contribute, I talk back and probably fuel his fire, but the response when I say please don't do this in front of the kids is 'well then you shouldn't have done x, y, z' like that makes it ok. He can be wonderful, caring and does so much around the house. But then he flips and is a complete nightmare. Does it to other family members too. I feel completely stuck, don't think he'll change.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bond Girl View Post
    I'm sick of you blaming me for losing your stuff when you can't find where you put it. For having a go at me for wanting to edit an advert as it's incorrect. For moaning at me because I was too exhausted to go out with you and the kids this morning, having been up with the baby as usual in the night. All of this you say in front of our children. Just stop it. Stop calling me 'mental' one minute, then trying to kiss me and make up the next and getting angry when I won't have it. Stop embarrassing me in front of people by making arguments public despite my best efforts. Stop expecting sex despite all the damage that's already been done, then moaning that your attitude and behaviour is my fault as you're pent up. Fed up with you. Don't like you right now. Its always hard to say I love you. Want to be far away from you and I just can't. But I always feel better soon and it always goes back to normal, for a while, until the next time
    Oh its the same herw everything you just said its the same.... got called a c**t in target yesterday so I cracked it and said right we are going home. Then he asked of its over yet I said if you want it to be. Ive come close to leaving many times our life is far from perfect. But like you it always goes away. Until the next time.

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