Hope this is ok to post here but I really need some advice from others dads as my partner is not coping.
We have a 3.5yo boy and a 9 week old girl and everything is going down hill.
My partner is constantly stressed and angry. He is going for a promotion at work which is great but is stressing him out.
Our 3.5 yo is challenging but mostly a good kid, he has been acting out at daycare I think because we are fighting almost every night. My DP thinks he is just being a spoilt little sh*t.
He claims to not be sleeping and its not from the baby as we are sleeping in the lounge at the other end of the house. He is stressing.
I don't know how to help any more, I have taken on all cleaning, cooking and organising of things for our kids and generally try to make things as stress free as possible.
We also have a mortgage and need to do work on the house which again takes up time and stresses him out.
He has started shouting at me and no 3.5yo is asking why he is grumpy with me a lot.
He never used to be like this and I want to help him feel better about things but I just feel like kicking him out.
(Last night was particularily bad - for the first time I over ruled him in disciplining our son. wasn't in front of son and I felt it was a wrong action for him to take and knew it would impact heavily on me which it did. (baby who has just been sleeping through for first two nights was so stressed from the tantrums and screaming she was up half the night and is near impossible to settle today, I am dealing with this alone))
Sorry for the long post but I really need some help before our relationship ends as its pretty much on its last legs