Is your dh a good man?
Better than good, he is the most amazing, caring, loving man I've ever met. He goes out of his way to make my world the best place it can be.
If you knew then what you know now would you still have married or partnered up with your dh .?
Absolutely. Actually, the more I know about him, the more concrete that answer becomes.
Is he ' the one ' ?
Do you wish you had of remained single?
And, to answer your question OP about why can't you find a good one. Don't give up hope. I was married to someone I wasn't suited to for many many years before we were divorced, then, just when I thought I would resign myself to the fact that all men were obviously the same and I would be alone forever....my now DH appeared.
There are many many men out there who are amazing. I used to think those men were just rare freaks of nature (my Dad and my Brother are amazing men too - I thought they were the only ones ) but they're not. From what I've seen and experienced, it's very commonplace for people to tell the stories about the ones who cheat, the ones who lie, the bad relationships - but much less commonplace for us to put our hand up and say "You know what? My relationship is amazing. My DH is incredible". For some very sad reason, some people seem to be a bit uncomfortable with people blurting out how wonderful their relationship is (or worse, think they're probably just making it sound better than it really is) so it's usually the scandalous and heartbreaking stories you hear. The good stories are out there, I promise