I'm new to this forum thing but just needed some advice from other parents, so here goes.
My husband and I have been together 3 years, when we met I knew he had a son who was 1 (almost 2) at the time, he is now almost 5. My husband usually had him every other weekend if work commitments didn't get in the way. I thought this little boy was the cutest and was proud to walk around looking like a little family. Not long after his 2nd birthday we had to move from NSW to QLD as my husband lost his job, we didn't get to see my SS very often, I then fell pregnant with our first together it was an exciting time for everyone including my SS. Throughout my pregnancy we had found out there would be some health issues with our little bubba so we moved back to NSW to be closer to family and I would give birth back home. Since having my little boy there have been ups and downs but all is going smoothly now, he is now 15 months old and I am expecting our 2nd in August. But since having my DS my perspective of my SS has changed and I can't seem to stand him, I know that sound horrible and I don't like feeling like this but I just don't look forward to him coming to stay on our weekends. I don't really know his mother but from the stories and talking to her she isn't the brightest star in the sky and this reflects in my SS behavior it is soo frustrating. I'm not sure if I'm feeling like this due to constant hormonal changes in the last 15 months or if it's just the reflection of his mother but it does bother me. I haven't told my husband because I know it will upset him and cause an argument.
Can anybody please help?