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    I'm amazed too given the general views on the Hub.

    I would have flown to the moon and back before having a "friend" sleepover while my parents were in the house, even when I was over 18. Ew no way.

    Not sure what I'd do with my own kids. Like most things I tend not to say never as I know my views change.

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    Would I allow it? Yes she is a adult and I would rather them be at home then sneaking around and though I do think someone should have told them to come say hello I can completely understand them not doing it because really if you thought your child was DTD would you want the awkward situation of interrupting them?

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    When we were teenagers, we weren't allowed to have boys stay over. I spent a lot of time at my bfs place. He didn't believe in Sex before marriage, but we still fooled around a lot - and yes we were in his bedroom "watching movies". In all fairness, we would watch most of the movie/s.

    Despite the no boys allowed to stay rule, my sister still had her bfs stay over from when she was about 18/19. I didn't have a bf stay over until I was about 21, and even then still had to fight it.

    I don't have a problem with an 18yo having privacy. I would have an issue with them being in the bedroom, door shut all day. Fair enough in the evening/at night, but not during daylight hours and certainly not when there are visitors. I think that part of it is quite rude. If there were younger siblings in the house I think it's also unacceptable for them to be locked in the bedroom all day while the house is awake and active.

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    Wouldn't bother me. She's an adult and obviously her parents trust her and the bf.
    Saying that, i moved out at 18 so wasn't really ever in that position. My 17 yo sis has her bf stay over most nights.
    Last edited by LaDiDah; 06-06-2014 at 02:08.


 

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