@Tommi - I would have thought the receptionist at Tresillian should be treading very lightly! If she's unhappy in her job she shouldn't be doing it! She was so rude and just upset me a lot.
I may make a complaint...
This will be a week long stay, well 4 nights 5 days.
They have put me as a priority due to PND And D-MER. But they ( early childhood centre) can't say when I will be booked in, that's part of the reason I rang tresillian today and got treated badly.
Literally - my relationship with DH has also changed, it changed a heap when ds1 came along too.
I think for us it's the adjustment of being new parents and not knowing how badly it would affect our sleep and 2nd time round I am more depressed as I'm getting even less sleep along with a tantrum throwing toddler. If it's any consolation I know how you feel. It's stressful on any relationship. I keep telling DH we are supposed to be a team but then with him booking indulgent relaxing trips for himself I wonder how much he really cares. Hopefully my email to him gives him a bit of a wake up call. If it doesn't then I know I can't rely on him or trust him to help me
It's so hard and I obviously don't know what your relationship is like as I don't know you guys but know that lots of relationships take strain with kids and sometimes you ride it out and it becomes better after the hurdles. It's not always the end it wasn't for DH and me when ds1 came along so I'm hoping it's not the end after these hurdles with ds2. Only time will tell I guess.