What questions can help me decide if to date an interstate guy who i really enjoy his company and admire him and am attracted to him on so many levels - as a parent, as a caring person in his career, his wisdom, patience, character traits. But can it go anywhere , will i really leave my family and friends and things that work for me to go live with him. should i continue for some months and then see what i think as i really like him. He has kids so living with him would be complicated for a few years. So is there a future worth waiting for?
The other guy i'd have to go out with a couple of times to see if i can get more attracted to him. He has some amazing qualities and comonalities, and would be very helpful in my life. I could have a relationship with him immediately and keep my friends and family wthout complications.
I'm not sure how to decide, or if to continue with the interstate guy for a few months and then decide, or if to meet up with the local guy a couple of times and see if that helps. I dont know what questions to ask,
do i have to go with the interstate guy as i just really enjoy him. his personality, character, company on so many levels, but would i really leave my family and friends to live with him one day and do i want ot wait while its complicated, do i want to try for a few months and then see,
or do i go for something less complicated and enjoy the many things that will offer me and the immediate relationship that i can have with him.