So I'm not quite sure where to post this sorry in advance if here is wrong.
I just need to have a little vent/chat. I had my daughter 11weeks ago and it was an extremely traumatic experience for both of us. I had an emergency csection, she was premmie with a long stay in SCN and I myself had a wound infection that took 8weeks to heal (just to name a few of the issues we had). Before we decided to have her I was on the combined pill with no problems at all but because I'm a migraine sufferer my ob decided to prescribe me just the mini pill this time. I've been on it a couple of weeks and my husband is very keen for it to be the only contraception now. But all I can think of is all the stories I've heard about it failing and the thought of being pregnant again terrifies the crap out of me. It's to the point where I had to stop my husband last night and I was in tears because all I could think of was the possibility of the mini pill failing and getting pregnant again. Now I do want more kids eventually but I feel that I really need extra time to get over this birth and I'm still trying to get a hang of having a baby now with not much support as our families live away.
I guess I'd just like to hear other people stories good and bad.