A friend of mine contacted me yesterday to tell me she had no money to buy food and asked for $50. I asked why she had no money. She has her two grandchildren in her care, is on DSP and has her son(who isn't employed living with her). Her other son has moved out and is living with two others and pays $160 a week in rent. He left his job a few months ago and she is paying his rent. Somehow she has managed to borrow money from her daughter but has now asked me for money. I told her that she cannot deprive her two grandchildren of food and needs to get some other welfare help. She is afraid they will remove the children. I am in a dilemma as she has told me she can't pay back the Fifty(I am ok about that) but she will be requiring more money. I am angry with her for looking after her unemployed son but then feel sorry for the kids. Any suggestions? I cannot continue to give money.