Im feeling really ****ed off. My DH looks me right in the eyes and lies about things. Tonight he came home reeking of cigarettes, and I asked him how many has he smoked today as he was supposed to have quite, and he tole me he hasn't had any. I told him that's bull****, i can smell it on it.. and he kept telling me no he hadn't. I am an ex smoker myself, plus pregnant so i know the smell of cigarettes. After me becoming extremely angry because he was lying to me, I told him I will not let this go until he admit it... he finally admitted it. Only because I was getting really angry and refusing to let it go.
He lies about other things as well. Things he thinks are minor but it happens all the time. I am so honest.... I hate that i give him more than he gives me.
Anyone elses husbands lie all the time?
I really can't see myself spending the rest of my life with someone that lies to me.
He is hands on with DS and helps out a lot. But The lying to me is getting the better of me and im tired of it.
I told him tonight If he lies to me again I am packing his bags and he can leave. Im sure that will only mean the next time he lies, he just wont budge and eventually admit to it.
I just can't win and i feel its really unfair.
Maybe i should just start being dishonest with him.