Reasons he gave me for leaving:
* doesn't like cheerleading business
* doesn't like horses
* doesn't like football
* I don't like his violent decapitating tv shows yet he refuses to watch my shows.
* I don't like Mexican and pizza every weekend
* my behaviour (though he said it was great now)
He said to me we were completely different people. I looked at him and went "because I don't like every movie you like and because I don't want pizza every weekend?" I couldn't understand, the behaviour yes I agree, but the rest....
Him and I had exactly the same ambitions in life. Property development, buy a house, have 3 kids, travel to Canada to live for a year, have two border collies. The only thing he didn't agree on was when I asked to go spend 6 months after Canada in California to learn off the dance/ Cheer gyms.
As my sister said to him, you knew about all of these things when you married her... 11 months ago! None of this is new, the only thing that's changed is the outside factors putting stress on your marriage. She said also to him you can never like 100% the same things as you are different. Why do you expect her to want to watch some gross show if you refuse to watch a girl show!
I have lost him now, His family who I love and my puppy Who was my mums puppy when she died. I didn't want to cause a fight so just said "you have him" but I loved that dog with all my heart. I am trying to organise visitation to see him. Seems silly but during the hard times he was there to give me cuddles and dog cuddles!
Feel like I've lost so much in such a short time. I was trying hard to save the marriage but reading through my texts the way I spoke to him it was clear that I was irritated and I just spoke to him like crap.