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    Wow!

    If you don't think the OP is genuine, please report her posts.

    If you don't agree with some admissions from her, please be considerate of her when you reply.

    Don't kick someone while they're down! :thumbdown:

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    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    I don't know what to say... Come on...You went into extensive detail about your private life, hubby and marriage problems and left out the bit where you abuse your husband?. That's not how you peel an onion. I feel you have in a way wasted people's time as advice they have offered in this thread could be way off the mark since they were only given half the story.

    I hope you continue with the counselling. Good luck.
    And this is precisely why I almost never respond to threads about relationships- because all we ever hear on a forum is one side of the story.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    7 months (or is it 2?) is still pretty recent when you are talking about abuse.

    You really didn't think your prior abuse of your husband was a problem at that point? Really? It didn't cross your mind that he was treating you like $hit because you treated him like $hit? Come on. Take responsibility and/or start telling the truth.
    You are quite the regular poster here vic. Do you tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth? Or occasionally do you omit the truth to get some support? I don't remember nominating anyone here for the bubhub moral compass?

    This post will likely get deleted like all other posts I write that don't agree with the majority. But I guess I just want to acknowledge that no one really tells the truth here.

    Good luck OP! Things seem abit crap now but I wish you all the best!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Naboo View Post
    You are quite the regular poster here vic. Do you tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth? Or occasionally do you omit the truth to get some support? I don't remember nominating anyone here for the bubhub moral compass?

    This post will likely get deleted like all other posts I write that don't agree with the majority. But I guess I just want to acknowledge that no one really tells the truth here.

    Good luck OP! Things seem abit crap now but I wish you all the best!
    Well there's a major difference between painting yourself in a slightly more flattering light and not admitting to being the perpetrator of domestic violence!!
    I am a little shocked tbh at the amount of support the OP is receiving after her latest admission. There is no excuse to hit someone, ever. Full stop.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Naboo View Post
    You are quite the regular poster here vic. Do you tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth? Or occasionally do you omit the truth to get some support? I don't remember nominating anyone here for the bubhub moral compass?

    This post will likely get deleted like all other posts I write that don't agree with the majority. But I guess I just want to acknowledge that no one really tells the truth here.

    Good luck OP! Things seem abit crap now but I wish you all the best!
    Gee you're a bit cranky tonight.. I agree with you ..people on here probably don't give the *whole* picture.. However what has unravelled in this thread is a 9/10 on the omissions radar, when it is usually sitting at a 3 or 4. I am confused as to why you are upset the OP had been called out on this.

    I think Harvs gave good advice. The OP is obviously suffering from something and is not in a good state. So best to leave things to the trained professionals.

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    What kind of violence are we talking about here? And obviously I have to say I've never beaten my husband.

    I guess its it's just abit of a shame the backs are turned so easily while one of our own bubhubbers need help regardless... I guess I'm abit sick of the wringing hands while pretending it's all for the common good....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Naboo View Post
    What kind of violence are we talking about here? And obviously I have to say I've never beaten my husband.

    I guess its it's just abit of a shame the backs are turned so easily while one of our own bubhubbers need help regardless... I guess I'm abit sick of the wringing hands while pretending it's all for the common good....
    Read the thread. I agree the OP needs some help and support however I find it hard to believe you can't understand why people would shy away from someone who has wasted people's time by omitting such big chunks of the truth. I am scratching my head at why you are choosing this thread to get your knickers in a knot over. There are women on here going through difficult times who haven't committed domestic violence ...who could use your support.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Naboo View Post
    What kind of violence are we talking about here?
    Does it matter? Imagine if that sentence was said in relation to male to female domestic violence. Violence is violence and it's unacceptable.

    That said, I think that the OP is in need of a huge amount of help - more than people on an online forum can provide so maybe we should all just leave it be.

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    I do have to wonder if the reason your husband didn't want the baby @brimm was because of your history with violence and he feared you might also hit the child sorry if that offends. However I do feel he could have handled the situation better and as previously stated by others it seems you bring out the worst in each other, so it might be a good thing in the long run as this gives you both the chance to get the help you both need so when you do meet other people down the track neither of you fall back in the same cycle of abuse.

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