So called verbal abuse aside can I ask did you hit your husband?
If so thats not ok. Not for a man or a woman to do not ever. And if you did hit your husband you need help to sort yourself out so you dont do that in your next relationship.
That aside he sounds like a d $/k from everything else you've written and I think he has been abusive to you. Its common for an abuser to lay blame on their victim unfortunately x
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