Your husband wants to control every aspect of your life, to his liking, not yours. I doubt he will ever be happy. This is what control freaks do, exactly what you say he does.
Brimm, you sound like a good hearted person.
My ex was very controlling. The deal breaker for me was when I bumped my thigh on a chair one day and when he saw it , he accused me of getting the bruise from rough sex with another guy. I explained to him how I got the bruise and he even compared the height of my bruise to the height of the chair. I never cheated on him, it was his pathetic insecurities. After this, I thought to myself, I don't need this jerk and why should I spend my days unhappy, when I could be spending my days with someone I adore. That week I kicked him out and told him to f..k off and he begged me to come back, didn't work! When I didn't take him back, I was everything under the sun . Other factors also came into it as to why I ended it, but I tell you what, I'm so much happier 6 years down the track.
⭐️DS #1 born 15.03.2010⭐️
⭐️DS #2 born 16.02.2014⭐️
⭐️Me=29 💗 DP=34⭐️