Oh Brimm, . I haven't posted in this thread previously but I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for all that you have been through.
In your last post you said that your husband is very loyal. If he were truly a loyal person he would have had your back. There are ways of doing things and he has done it all in the wrong way. If terminating the pregnancy were importanting to him, it is possible that he could have put the issue on the table and opened up the discussion without treating you like a pebble in his shoe. Taking you to the football is not the same as validating your feelings, it is a bribe.
It is a beautiful quality to be an open hearted and forgiving person, but you don't have to sacrifice yourself and your needs to another person. You deserve to be in partnership with someone who loves and respects you, who has got your back, and where each of you can become excited about the others dreams.
All the best to you hun. Don't stay so long that your options for a happy life start to slip away.