I'm sorry to hear you have miscarried brimm
I think the way those around you have handled this situation is downright appalling. You need love, hugs, kind words - not being told you are being an inconvenience. My mind boggles at the selfishness and lack of compassion.
This has been a very stressful life experience for you. Your husband has shown he cannot emotionally 'be there' for you, when you need him most. My heart really breaks for you.
I would seriously recommend taking some time out for yourself to think about life and what you want for the future. You seem like a lovely person and you deserve to be happy.
Don't be afraid to put your happiness first, because I sadly doubt your husband ever will