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    My body ended up making its mind up for me in relation to going to work. Woke up at 3am in horrible pain that wouldn't leave. Left me screaming and crying. Took some panadols which killed the pain a bit, but still had to suffer through 2 hours of it. Still very sore so have called in sick, much to the distain of my work. I'm going to the doctors when it opens.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brimm View Post
    My body ended up making its mind up for me in relation to going to work. Woke up at 3am in horrible pain that wouldn't leave. Left me screaming and crying. Took some panadols which killed the pain a bit, but still had to suffer through 2 hours of it. Still very sore so have called in sick, much to the distain of my work. I'm going to the doctors when it opens.
    I'm glad you're going to see the Dr. It's best to get checked out. Don't worry about work, it's only work and they'll survive without you for a day. You need to put yourself first for the time being.

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    I am so sorry you are going through this. I have lost two pregnancies and it just breaks you. I cant imagine going through it without my partner holding me up every step of the way.
    You sound like such a loving and caring woman.
    Can I ask what your husband brings to this marriage? He isn't supportive, caring or loving. He talks down to you, controls you, completely disregards you and your feelings.
    You deserve so much more.
    Think about this, if you had a daughter and she was treated so awfully, what would you tell her to do?

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    I'm so sorry brimm. Be kind to yourself.

    My only advice is if the investment property sells please don't fritter away the money on a car it holiday like your husband is suggesting. Use it to buy yourself some time away from such a toxic environment.

    Maybe go spend a week at your sisters?

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    I'm so sorry Brimm What an awful time you're going through. I too have lost a pregnancy and I can't imagine having to go through that while my husband was happy about it! His behavior towards you is just disgusting and there is no excuse for it, no matter what he is going through.

    I really do hope that one day when you're married to a wonderful, supportive, loving and kind hearted man, with beautiful children and a happy, loving home, that you will be able to look back on this marriage and realise that escaping from this awful, controlling narcissist was the best decision you ever made.

    I have been through a similar thing with an equally awful man, and for me it was a blessing in disguise. I was given a very forceful wake up call, I realised that I deserved so much better... so I left and never looked back! I'm now married to an amazing man, with a beautiful son and a lovely home. I shudder to think what my life would be like now if I had stayed



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    I've been reading along and I'm so sorry and totally disgusted you are being treated this way, and at a time like this!
    I'm sorry to be crass but your husbands father sound like a self entitled pr!ck who has raised a narcissistic bas*ard.
    All of this screams emotional abuse.
    Please look up about narcissistic personality disorder.

    The main thing I wanted to say was to put yourself first.
    I don't want to freak you out but I think it's important you find out ASAP what is happening with this pregnancy.
    Ectopic comes to mind with some of your symptoms.
    Please take care of yourself.

    With your husband though, his behavior is inexcusable, disgusting and vile.
    But I think it's important to understand he will never change and he doesn't even see how his actions are bad right now, it's justifiable behavior for the self centered person.

    Just please put yourself first.
    ***** everyone else, you are capable of putting you, your body and your health first. Don't think you can't because you want to keep some kind of peace.
    Let everyone else crumble when you stop being their supply that bends and folds the way they want.
    I can see from what I've read you are strong, but that doesn't mean you're immune to abuse.
    Stay strong.

    Edit to add:
    Just see you're heading to the drs this morning.
    I hope everything is ok.
    Sending my thoughts
    You will always have endless support here.
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    I'm actually contemplating if perhaps going to emergency would be better than the doctors? From my understanding a lot can be done there? I rang up the Doctors and asked to speak to mine, she simply said to come in and get some blood work done.
    The pain has subsided but I feel so drained physically. Still barely any bleeding though.

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    @brimm Id go to the emergency. You are right, there is not much your GP can do whereas in hospital they could do a lot of tests

    Good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by ExcuseMyFrench View Post
    @brimm Id go to the emergency. You are right, there is not much your GP can do whereas in hospital they could do a lot of tests

    Good luck
    Would emergency be able to provide me with a medical certificate for work or will I have to go to the doctors for that?

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    Emergency can absolutely give you a doctors certificate x

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