A baby is not an inconvenience, it's a blessing!
You might want to remind these people of that!
Life is life, there's no dress rehearsal!
What comes along is the real deal!
Just because the service is there it does not mean it's right to defer your pregnancy like one would a college course.
I think an abortion should only be done in certain circumstances, NOT because your husband and those around you are all (and I mean this with all my heart) ar5eh0les!
Not one of them have bothered to ask you how YOU feel about this wonderful little being coming to life in YOUR body!
I'm probably preaching to the choir here though because I feel you have a good grip on reality due to the fact that you lost your mother, I know the affect losing a parent can have.
I'd look on the pregnancy as a little gift from my mother if I were you.
A new baby always brings joy and hope to a family.
It's such a shame your DH can't see that.
If you go ahead with HIS plans I can almost guarantee you will resent him forever for it and then you will have to live with your own grief too.
Is he worth that?
If my DH did any single one of the things you mentioned (controlling much?)
I'd be reconsidering our relationship.
That does not sound like an equal partnership to me.
And what's his fascination with properties?
What if the bubble burst here and he was left with crippling debts (it happens) how would he find a way to blame you for that?
After all, he's trying to blame an innocent child for his world not working out exactly to plan.
Very small minded of him I might add.
Sorry, you got me on a rant this morning.
I don't think I've ever been so mad on behalf of a poster.
Who is he to make these appointments for you too?
I'm glad that woman sent you home but I have heard of cases where they went ahead with the procedure.
Do NOT set foot in another clinic unless YOU want to.
I'd be really interested to know how your mother felt about him?