I do regret it but at the same time I don't. It's a weird feeling. I wasn't ready and so scared but obviously I carry a lot of guilt. It triggered major depression in me that I've battled. Our first baby was stillborn and I've struggled with thoughts that she died because I'm being punished. But it's only since having her and our baby boy that I've started to feel more at peace and feel it was the right decision, I am so grateful for my husband and our baby girl and boy and as I look down at my hilarious DS it's hard to regret something that made his life possible. So even though it was a very hard and painful decision and I'll always carry guilt, I do think it ended up being the right one.
I'm not saying OP's husband isn't being a sh*thead and maybe it's a warning sign, but also maybe it's not. Maybe he is a great guy that just doesn't have the emotional maturity to handle this right now. Only OP knows.