My bil still hasn't had the whooping cough vaccine - he lives with fil so will therefore have regular contact with the baby.
We asked him to get it when I was 12 weeks & he didn't voice any objections but he still hasn't done it & I only have 5 & 1/2 weeks to go.
What's the best course of action here? Is it safe for him to be around the baby regularly if he doesn't get the needle?
I don't think I can force anyone but I also want to do what is best for my baby. But if I keep the baby away from BIL then that means FIL will get to spend less time with him/her & that's not really fair.