He told me the day he did it. I know he is remorseful, I know he is sorry, I know he regrets it but it still kills me as to why and he can't answer it. He just says he doesn't know and he's an idiot. Thank you so much ladies, I hate that other women have gone through this and are going through this and are going to go through this... I also hate that the few people I have told that haven't judged me straight up for staying have sad stories that they can relate to me via.