Mods, can you please move if in wrong section. DP can be extraordinarily attentive, but he is also extraordinarily laid back and misses a lot of issues that I have to catch. It seems that when I try to sort out a problem or issue, or I don't do it to his satisfaction he verbally lashes out at me. After nearly 10 years, I feel he doesn't like me or what I contribute. He just wants that supportive part of me that works to give him everything he wants, and not the rest of me.