Thanks Newly2BMum. I have travelled a bit...not with my husband but we plan to live overseas without kids in the future. We don't have many friends our age/stage that are thinking of having kids, let alone thinking of settling down. But we don't really want to plan our own family around other people. We will probably be the first. I kind of figure that life goes on, yes it will be different but it doesn't end just because of kids.