Thanks for updating us Monnie, I was just thinking about you.
I'm glad you and hubby went to counselling. The stress trauma that you suffered not long ago when Hugo became sick would be enough to end many marriages I'm sure.
I hope you and hubby keep following this positive curve of talking things out and caring for one another. It's okay to hold a bit of resentment for now, I'm sure with time you'll be able to work through that. You have both been through a lot.