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    Quote Originally Posted by faroutbrusselsprout View Post
    I'm in vic as well. I have 4 children who will all be starting prep the year they turn 6.
    My third was 3 in Jan and is currently doing 3yr old kinder. Some of the kids are 10/11/12 months older than her.
    She will be held back next year. I don't see how it can be at all beneficial to send her with a whole year less of social and emotional maturity. I don't care about the academic stuff, but I know how tricky girls can be when the b!tchiness sets in.
    The trend in vic is showing that the majority of kids are now starting school closer to 5/6 not 4/5.
    How do u know my dd will be held back next year?! I don't see it beneficial to keep dd at crèche/3yo room an extra year! She is already bored !!
    i just worry later in when she realises the age gap. As u said girls can be *****y.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Miss Muffet View Post
    How do u know my dd will be held back next year?! I don't see it beneficial to keep dd at crèche/3yo room an extra year! She is already bored !!
    i just worry later in when she realises the age gap. As u said girls can be *****y.
    Lol! Read my response again! I meant we have decided to hold OUR daughter back next year purely to give her an extra year to mature.
    If she's already bored then isn't that your answer?
    I use a council kinder which i think can be a little different.

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    Quote Originally Posted by faroutbrusselsprout View Post
    Lol! Read my response again! I meant we have decided to hold OUR daughter back next year purely to give her an extra year to mature.
    If she's already bored then isn't that your answer?
    I use a council kinder which i think can be a little different.
    Sorry, I misread. its hard. I have friends holding their kids back, and family did what I'm doing. I've spoken to school principals and teachers aides. All who bring it down to it being our decision.
    I feel dd is ready. I'm just not liking the fact she will be in with almost 6 yr olds. It sounds crazy. Why did they change the age?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Miss Muffet View Post
    Sorry, I misread. its hard. I have friends holding their kids back, and family did what I'm doing. I've spoken to school principals and teachers aides. All who bring it down to it being our decision.
    I feel dd is ready. I'm just not liking the fact she will be in with almost 6 yr olds. It sounds crazy. Why did they change the age?
    They haven't? It's been April cut off for about 20 years!
    If you feel she is ready then you will just have to make sure she has the emotional skills and support to deal with any issues that may occur socially later on.

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    I'm in vic too and my DD has just started prep this year, she turned 6 in March, and as others have said it seems now most are holding their children back so they're 5 turning 6. In DD's class there is only one boy who just turned 5.

    So unfortunately you're DD will most likely be in a class with much older children, and girls are b...chy, DD has already had trouble with a few girls in her class because they'll say things like 'you're not my friend anymore' and she's so sensitive she'll burst into tears and ask to go to the sick bay.

    She's one of the eldest in her class but this stuff still really affects her, I'd hate to think how she would have coped last year being one of the youngest, I don't think she would have coped to be honest, so I guess what I'm saying OP is if you think your DD might have trouble socially, maybe consider holding her back?

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    We are in WA.

    My DD2 started 4 yo kinder when she was 3. The range of ages means she's probably about just over half into the younger group. One of her closest friends is 9 months older than her. One of the nastiest girls in her class is a month younger than her. You can't predict what the other kids will be like, only how you think your child will be. DD2 suffers with anxiety and I did consider keeping her back but academically she's extremely bright and she was doing my head in at home as she was desperate to start school.

    It's not an easy decision. Some days I wonder how she would have gone if we'd kept her back a year but there was never a right time to do this as at the end of each year the teachers were telling us she was ready.

    DD1 is in year 3 and I can't tell which girls are older or younger.

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    Quote Originally Posted by faroutbrusselsprout View Post
    I'm in vic as well. I have 4 children who will all be starting prep the year they turn 6.
    My third was 3 in Jan and is currently doing 3yr old kinder. Some of the kids are 10/11/12 months older than her.
    She will be held back next year. I don't see how it can be at all beneficial to send her with a whole year less of social and emotional maturity. I don't care about the academic stuff, but I know how tricky girls can be when the b!tchiness sets in.
    The trend in vic is showing that the majority of kids are now starting school closer to 5/6 not 4/5.
    Yes this. Ds1 has just turned four. He missrd the cut off by four days. He will be in kinder next year.

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    My DS turned 3 in April (I'm in vic) and he moved up to the pre-kinder room at daycare (he goes 3 days a week). So next year he will enrol in the kinder program my daycare runs, then start primary school the year after when he is 4 turning 5.

    It's really your choice. I do have a friend who is a kindergarten teacher and she will warn parents long before the end of the kinder year if she's concerned about them moving into school. They will reccomend that they repeat kinder if they don't feel they are ready for school.

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