Last edited by Moltone; 07-05-2014 at 18:15.
But not his business debts tho??
He wants me to pay them but the lawyer said I could be made to as the money was used for the family.
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Not a single parent but no way is that considered cheating. He's just being an ****.
I haven't read any of the replies but my understanding is that Australia has no fault divorce so I fail to see how anything you did or didn't do could effect his having a claim over your inheritance. He is bluffing. Also, if I recall he had well and truly shut down before you separated. He is messing with your head hun.
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I agree that Australia has 'no fault' divorce. Your financial seperation is worked out based on what finances you entered the relationship with, which you had during the relationship (and how each person contributed eg working/children) and what you left with at the end. They also look at potential future earnings depending on individual circumstances.
If your inheritance wasnt granted until after your seperation I would imagine that he cant do anything. I would look at the dates on that formal paperwork and see how they line up.
Get yourself lawyered hun. He sounds like his ego has been hurt and he is lashing out how he thinks he can. If he has to push things legally the tactics wont work as they have zero emotional involvement.
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You did not cheat and he is being a jerk. Don't give him a cent more than you legally have to. I can't believe the nerve of him. It must be really difficult having to deal with him being so nasty.
Good lord he needs to get over himself. You are separated and have been for some time. Kissing someone after a separation is not cheating! I would call his bluff and tell him you'll get stat dec's from friends and family to say despite staying in the same house for some time you haven't been a couple for ages.
Now if you guys had decided to work on things but living apart I would say it was cheating, but that isn't the case so it's not.
I'm fully imagining it with the judge.
Judge: so you say your wife committed infidelity
Douchebag: well...she flirted with someone...and kissed someone
Judge: I see. And you were a married couple at the time?
DB: well...er...not exactly...I'd told her I wasn't attracted to her and told her it was ok to sleep with other men. She didn't want to be unfaithful.
Judge: right. But I'm confused. You say she kissed someone?
Judge: with your permission?
DB: ah ha! No! Not with my permission!
Judge: but you just said...
DB: yes - I offered, but she said no, she'd rather separate.
Judge: Sigh. So - you had not been in a physical relationship for some time, you didn't want to be, you suggested that your wife look elsewhere?
Judge: and she elected instead to end the marriage.
Judge: and after the marriage ended, your EXwife kissed someone else?
Judge: WTF? Stop wasting my time! *throws gavel at his stupid face*
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