Big huge hugs to you honey. Xxxx
You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.
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He just wants your money and he's using whatever excuses he can to get his hands on it.
I would not consider the situation you've described as cheating.
Massive hugs for what you went through in your marriage
Wtf? If your avatar is you, you're gorgeous. Just from your posts I can see you're lovely.
Separated is the first step in divorce. You can snog whoever you please. You don't owe him your inheritance. You inherited after you separated. He can get stuffed!
What did the lawyer say??
This dude is just a controlling douchebag.
XH used to withhold intimacy also. We decided to separate but still living under same roof due to necessity until one of us could find a new place. I kissed someone about a week after we separated and never for a second considered it cheating. (It was actually a massive ego boost after years of being made to feel unattractive and gave me the resolve to stick to my guns when he started talk about getting back together) I also met DH before I was legally divorced.
I'm trying to remember from your other posts. Did you inherit the money after you separated? If so and you have witnesses who will sign declarations that you were officially separated (regardless of co-habitation) he should have no claim to it. You may be liable for 50% of debts accrued during the marriage unless they were debts from a ltd liability company.
Or is he trying to say you were still together, you cheated on him and the split is your 'fault' so you owe hi. This is how the divorce system works in the US and why you read about what celebrities list as the reason for divorce. In Australia we have a 'no fault' system and the reasons for divorce never need to be disclosed and are not taken into account regarding financial settlements. *disclaimer* this is to the best of my knowledge, please talk to a lawyer to confirm all this.
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Is moving out an option?
I let my exH move into my house for a couple of months while he was in between houses (last year). It was nearly impossible to date anyone as they were weirded out by the fact that my ex lived there. My current DP said that if he (exH) had been living there when I met him, he would've broken it off. Just something to consider when you start dating people... not all guys will be cool with it (can really complicated things).
If you are separated than its none of his business what you do.
I met & was dating DH when i was separated from my X before our divorce came thru
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