A bit of both.
I met my dh.
Fall pregnant on my honeymoon.
Than had a really hard time falling and stay pregnant.
Than fall 3 times in row.
Followed by another dry spell.
4 year later ds2 and another 4 ds3.
Luck having 6 great kids.
Being a stay at home mum for 20 years minus 6mths when dh stay home and I worked. Even when it been a huge struggle we always worked a away. We have always been classed a low income family.
Own our own home with even if has meant living in a shed for years while we save and build and save for the next time stage.
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