How much of each has factored into the life you're living right now?
For example, I chose to be a SAHM with DS and the plan was for me to return to work once #2 was sleeping through the night. Well nobody ever plans to have twins, so now through necessity I'm at home with them until they start school as daycare costs would make us worse off.
Would like to hear others thoughts
(Dropped the phone halfway through typing & it posted before I was finished!)