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    Part of the reason CS payments drop with increased visitation is because it's expected your costs drop too. Nappies, food etc should all be supplied by the father. Over time they really should have their own clothes too.

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    As the others said, he should supply, but in my case, I'm still packing a bag for.my three kids four years down the track. It sux, definitely try and establish this asap

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    For a day visit id just send spare clothes and expect the father to provide food, nappies, wipes, drink cup etc. i would though provide him with a list of what he might need each week if he had no idea so i knew my child was eating the right foods.

    Once he starts having him overnight id expect him to have clothes there too.

    If he kicks up a stink tell him to call child support & they can back it up.

    DD1 is 6.5 and i haven't sent along anything since she was a toddler unless its something she specifically wants to take

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    Thanks everyone!
    Ex was suprisingly accomodating and actually agreed to buy his own nappies, sippy cups etc etc! All i have sent is a spare set of clothes to live there and his pyjamas for him to come home in!


 

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