I Don't Know What I have Done Wrong

[sugar n spice]

glad to hear things are sorted, sounds complicated but i to agree phew i thought it was something else

[SorenLorensen]

its great you have worked thing out, and i think you should stand your ground on the christmas thing. if your home is muslim (i must admit i dont know much about the muslim way) then that is that, a religion is something you have to respect and you cant pick and choose the bits and pieces that make up other religions and add them here and there. its great your sons are going to get to see christmas on the day maby onday this will show them how different everyone is as there is point in bloking them from the rest of the world.
i say good on you, a muslim house is just that and i know if someone walked into a catholic church and tried to put up a poster of buddah they would be told to get it down.
oh and maby if your dh wanted to do something :tree: with all his kids how about someting simmple like take them for a drive around to see the lights then every one can enjoy it even you

[Kassiasmum]

Glad to hear that you guys are sorting out your problems, just remember to keep the lines of communication open now that this has started. Good luck with everything.