I Don't Know What I have Done Wrong

[mumtok&z]

When DH came home from work yesterday everything was fine. He went out fishing with a friend of ours ( who i am quite good friends with too and i am best friends with his wife). Well he seemed ok when they got back but after an hour or so he went really quiet and reserved. He went off tho work this morning only to come home after an hour with no explanation as to why. All day he has hardly spoken to me and when he does he says very little. He has also been very abrupt with me too. i don't know what i have done. I am trying really hard not to worry but i get the impression that he doesn't want me taling to him at all. I have tried to get him to talk to me and told him when he is ready that i am here but like i said he is quite brief and abrupt.
All he has done all day is lay in bed and now he is on the couch. I am feeling sick with worry but i don't want to push him.
Sorry, I just had to tell someone.

[AimeeB]

Sorry to hear that,perhaps he had a bad day at work or is worried about something to do with work.It's uncomfortable when your husband/partner doesn't want to talk but maybe if you wait a while he might open up.I hope things are ok

[WeThree]

I am pretty sure YOU have not done anything.
It seems that something has happened that is worrying him deeply and for whatever reason he feels he cannot tell you. Maybe something happened whilst out with his friend, like he lost his wallet or something, or something happened at work, whatever it is I know it is hard, but try to give him some time tonight to gather up the nerves to tell you.

[Rhoxie]

Maybe go out for a while and give him some space - he might need solo thinking time before sharing what's on his mind.

[Mum2Bug]

Angie. Give him a couple of hours and then approach him once the boys are in bed. It could be anything at the moment. I hope it all goes well and you know where I am if you need me.

[mumtok&z]

Well i had a little bit of a breakthrough this afternoon. He asked what was for dinner and after i told him I asked him if everything was ok. His answer was not really. So I asked him if I had done something and he just said he didn't want to talk about it as it wasn't the right time. At least i know it has something to do with me, but i'll be buggered if i know what! I have been so stressed about this all day i have had blood nose after blood nose, i couldn't eat. I had a chocolate party and had to pretend infront of mum that everything was ok. I know she could tell i was upset. He knows I worry...
But I still don't know what i have done.

[Pippi Longstocking]

That would drive me mental! See, I'm not the kind of person that has the ability to sit around waiting for someone to tell me what I have allegedly done.
In your position, I bet I would have picked a fight just to get hims to spill his guts quickly

[Blessed Mum]

Oh what a horrible situation you are in. He must know how much this is stressing you & upsetting you surely he is able to sit down calmly & talk it out with you. I think if it were anything really wrong you had done you would know hey, so maybe stop sweating it & let him play this out on his own - he might soon get bored knowing you are not worried as you know you've done nothing wrong & decide to spill LOL, I really hope its worked out soon that is horrible

[Angelmist♥]

I totally agree with BlessedMum, play it cool and see what he does.

Sorry but to me it sounds like mind-games and it would drive me mental!

I'd be telling him to grow up, tell you what's wrong or go mope somewhere else.

[StrawberryTheMilkshake]

Are you sure his response meant it was something to do with you?

Im very curious... what is it with men.... they drive me nuts sometimes!!! Just blooming tell us whats wrong!