I could have written this post word for word! DS is one and on a good night he wakes up 3x last night he was up from 11-2:30am. Not awake but trying to sleep, it took us all that time just to resettle him! I don't have any answers just know that im right there with you and it's getting to the point I dread the night. Bed sharing doesn't work for us he still wakes the same amount of times and we all get a crap sleep. I would love if that was the answer just plonk him in bed with us but sadly DS doesn't think so!