Thanks girls! Yes my co-worker was rude but I didn't register how rude until a while after when I got over the shock of it all! Needless to say I wore a sack to work today haha
@frenchy81 there is no way I'd ask your MIL to be there so early on. My MIL is very well meaning but quite pushy and would love to be there every step of the way too but I've made it clear it's just going to be me and my DH for the first week or so and we will call on people to come and visit when we are well and truly ready! I couldn't think of anything worse having frustrating ppl around at that time. It's definitely me time when the baby is born and I don't care if that comes across as rude
About the weight thing, I am quite tall and slim and I know I have put on weight so there is no way I will be stepping on any scales or looking at my weight until well after this baby is born! Haha I already have stretch marks on my upper legs and bottom I think I must be really vain but that bothered me so much! Haha
Welcome to lashed!