I'm leaning towards 3...
Do you think a small pendant would work with it? I have a topaz pendant and earrings that DF had made for me and gave them to me on our first anniversary. (He went fossicking on a holiday not long after we met, got a chunk of topaz and had the jewellery made.) We are getting married on our 10 year anniversary of our first date so it would be really significant but I don't want to 'spoil' the dress by wearing non-appropriate jewellery.
(Sorry if this is a really silly question - I'm just not very good with this sort of stuff, I've changed my earrings probably 3 times in the last 7 years.)
I've just placed my order for my first choice dress.