So this is more of a rant than anything, but are all inlaws a pain in the butt or just mine?
My mother in law lives twenty minutes away, but I swear she's at our house more often then not. My partner works away for weeks at a time and only gets to come home for the weeks every so often, I get she misses him too but the weekend he's home she turns up Saturday morning and stays all day, invites herself to stay the night and leaves basically when he does. She's here all week and despite being told repeatedly my 2 year olds nap time, she turns up 15 minutes before so obviously DD doesn't want to go to bed. When I finally put her down 1-2 hours later she makes snide remarks about it. I said to her yesterday after it being the fourth day in a row she's came at that time, 'it's probably best you didn't turn up right on nap time' as DD was throwing the biggest tantrum coz she didn't want to sleep and then she said nastily about it not being convenient for us. She just randomly turns up at our house and if we're not home calls us all angry and expects me to run home, or angry that the house is locked. She's asked for a spare key so she can let herself in and she's also rang me while out to lunch with a few other mums and their kids and wanted to come get my house key and let herself in.
she also reeks of cigarettes. I mean she'll sit in our driveway in her car, door and windows shut and smoke for 10 minutes before she walks inside and it chokes me up! DP has told her repeatedly not to come near our two girls when she smells like that and it's like she doesn't care! And she scares me so I feel too rude saying anything but it p!sses me off so much! You never know how she's going to react to something that's said though. And her mouth. She's got the mouth of a trucker, even says the f and c word around my two year old and I hate it and have mentioned to her not too. My two year old is a parrot and already picked up saying a few of the more common swear words so I'm sure the rest aren't too far off.
my teenage brother in law randomly turns up at our house at all hour, Friday night he turned up at 10:30 with a group of drunk friends and wanted to stay the night.
My sister in law is amazing though and same with my father in law. It's mostly just the other two haha