Sorry for your loss Cloud Babies
I had a missed mc pretty much exactly a year ago. I opted for the d&c because in the end I was tired of being stuck in limbo land. It had been weeks of uncertainty and I just wanted it over. I was 9 weeks but the bub had stopped growing at 5 weeks. It was an 'easy' procedure (emotional, though) and the recovery was quick.
I fell pregnant again shortly after and now have a 4 week old dd.