14 months after I discovered my Dh was cheating I find myself in a strange situation. I fear that not all "happily married" couples are in fact happy by my definition I.e. $exually faithful and putting in their best effort to nurture the relationship and care for each other. I'm suspicious that a lot more infidelity occurs than is made known, and that many wives put up with it because their ideal of a family living together is so precious to them that they "turn a blind eye" and never feel completely secure.
I'm still I'm my marriage, obviously, but I'm really curious about how many women there are out there who decide to stay knowing there is an almost certain risk of betrayal?