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    Default Would you be annoying with your other half..

    My sister and I do not get along, she is a former junkie, still drug user, with significant mental illness who has put the entire family through her cr@p for the last 20 + years. I have had enough, and cut all contact with her around 8 months ago, I don't want my child to have anything to do with her although my father has taken him to see her behind my back, which as you can imagine infuriates me. I don't want her to have anything to do with belly baby, and don't think that seeing updates/photos or anything is any of her business. Anyway, I asked DP a while ago whether she was still on his facebook account, as I was putting up a photo of DS and told him I wouldn't tag him in it if she was going to see it. DP told me he didn't know as he doesn't use it often blah, blah, blah. Anyway, I was at my grandmother's house the other day showing her a photo of DS at soccer which DP had put up, and from her account could see that my sister had commented on the picture, so is obviously still on his friends list. He hasn't mentioned it, but I was pretty bloody annoyed as I feel he should respect my feelings on the issue. He has no contact with a brother of his, and I know if I had anything to do with him he would be pretty angry.

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    I think you should just ask him to delete her. It would take 30 seconds.

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    *Annoyed.

    I have! I was rather $hitty that he hadn't listened, as I asked him when I ceased contact with her, as well as since then.

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    That would be annoying....

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    People who aren't friends can comment on tagged photos if they are friends of friends. It could be that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Naboo View Post
    People who aren't friends can comment on tagged photos if they are friends of friends. It could be that?
    I was just about to say that. Your DH may have tagged your grandmother, or another family member she is friends with. She would then see that tag on that person's wall.

    I wouldn't go in proverbially swinging with your DH yet lol just say you noticed she commented on a photo he tagged, and ask if he has removed her.

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    I wouldn't put any photos on any social media that I didn't want certain people to see. If that's the case then block her and she won't see anything.

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    I'd be annoyed. If you block her she might not be able to see anything you tag your dh in?

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    It depends on my annoyance. If they were friends and their friendship was seperate to me (So they were friends because they liked each other, rather than being friends for my sake) then no, it probably wouldn't annoy me. If they were friends just because I made them be, I'd probably "Wtf" at it. But still, annoyed is maybe not what I'd be, tbh.

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    That would annoy me. But I would just tell him you would like him to make sure she is deleted from his fb.
    Are you able to create your own private group with ppl you want to see photos of your kids then she will be unable to see them?

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