My sister and I do not get along, she is a former junkie, still drug user, with significant mental illness who has put the entire family through her cr@p for the last 20 + years. I have had enough, and cut all contact with her around 8 months ago, I don't want my child to have anything to do with her although my father has taken him to see her behind my back, which as you can imagine infuriates me. I don't want her to have anything to do with belly baby, and don't think that seeing updates/photos or anything is any of her business. Anyway, I asked DP a while ago whether she was still on his facebook account, as I was putting up a photo of DS and told him I wouldn't tag him in it if she was going to see it. DP told me he didn't know as he doesn't use it often blah, blah, blah. Anyway, I was at my grandmother's house the other day showing her a photo of DS at soccer which DP had put up, and from her account could see that my sister had commented on the picture, so is obviously still on his friends list. He hasn't mentioned it, but I was pretty bloody annoyed as I feel he should respect my feelings on the issue. He has no contact with a brother of his, and I know if I had anything to do with him he would be pretty angry.