I probably would have ceased contact after my first borns first birthday if no effort had been made..
I've ceased contact with a lot of my friends and family for varying reasons.. I don't know if I could do it to my Mum though, so I understand how hard it would be to do so with your Dad..
I agree with someone who mentioned a birthday catch up..
But again, after 4 years I'd of given up completely..
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