LMM congrats on your baby girl. Glad you are both doing well
KJ35 - Huggies Newborn(up to 5kg) are what I'm using and find them great. They are still a bit big for Erin as she has only just hit 2.5kg and haven't had one leak yet. She does some pretty powerful wet farts but the side elastic holds it all in. Just remember to make sure it doesn't get tucked in around the legs as this is how you can get leakage. Huggies Newborn were recommended to me by nearly every mother I know and my cousin's wife gave me the tip about the leg elastic.
Who will be next??? So exciting!
Midwife visit today was so much better than the home visit. She checked Erin over and gave me some really helpful information about getting Erin on the breast. It's going to be hard and slow going as we have to unlearn some things, but Erin has already made progress. The tips she's given me make me want to go "Doh! why didn't I think of that?" Most of our dramas stem from the pain meds I was on which might stay in Erin's system for another 3 weeks. Poor darling, I feel for her and I'm finding it hard not to blame myself.
I'm at risk of pnd so will be assessed at each visit also. I felt comfortable with the midwife so was able to open up to her.