My elderly neighbour's husband past away today. She is incredibly self sufficient, cooks, cleans, looks after her grandchildren afterschool etc. she has a huge Italian family, and massive church and community network who I imagine will be checking in on her and supporting her. I just want to acknowledge the loss of her lifelong partner and help out where I can (during his illness I often drove her to the train station or hospital to see appointments etc, but I'm not involved in her family/community outreach). She doesn't need meals or cakes, she cooks all day long, flowers seem a little trifle for her in comparison to her beautiful Italian garden... Any suggestions?